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Trading Penneys for Apples

JC Penney was a successful chain of stores, but it was time for a new CEO and as times were changing, the company knew it needed to make sure it stayed current so as to reach customers and accomplish its retail mission. They decided to tap a successful CEO who had a track record of success with Apple. Ron Johnson was thought to be behind the Apple store design which had done well. He was a follower of Steve Jobs and had taken some of his greatest lessons to heart.

He came to JC Penney and began to quickly make the changes he thought would help update the store for future success. His changes emulated what had worked for the Apple stores. One not-so-minor problem; JC Penney wasn’t Apple, it wasn’t selling technology and its target clients were not the same as Apple. If you watch the video embedded below, you will see the catastrophic decline that immediately followed these changes.

There is a cautionary tale for today’s church. Culture is changing and the church must constantly adapt its methods so that it can continue to deliver the Message and accomplish the Mission that Jesus gave it; to Make Disciples. Some churches choose to go the way of Blockbuster Video (a separate idea and future blog post) and just quietly go out of business by not figuring out newer ways to do the same thing. There are many churches that do know that there needs to be change and often they look to what has been successful for others and try to copy that success.

Churches need to change, but each church needs to change according to their own culture, their own community, and the unique circumstances that God has placed them in. Even in the early church, things that worked in Jerusalem didn’t necessarily work in Galatia. As some churches became primarily filled with Gentiles instead of Jews, there were cultural differences that had to be taken into account.

When we try to blindly emulate the style and methods of someone else’s success, we will run a great risk of destroying the good parts of what we have. Change must be done carefully and thoughtfully with a careful study of your own culture, your own gifts and weaknesses, and the unique situation that God has placed you in. This is why I’m a big fan of churches bringing in an Assessment Team who can listen to the church, help the church take stock of itself, and then help guide the church through the correct changes. Otherwise, we risk thinking that one size and one method will fit all and we will only hasten the decline we were trying to avoid.

If you are a pastor or other leader who longs to see the church grow in its Mission to make disciples, make sure you don’t trade your Penneys for Apples.

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A Tractor, A Son, & God

Oh No! Not Again!

As the weather forecast started talking about snow in early November followed by a turn toward cold temperatures, I feared a repeat of last year where winter started early and the snow came and stayed before I was done with everything. So Wednesday turned into a sprint to the finish on outside projects. One of those projects is taking the mower deck of the tractor and putting on the snowblower.

When I inherited my Dad’s Kubota, I had to get a friend (thank you Nick) to teach me how to do work because I had never done it with my Dad, having moved out on my own long before he bought the tractor. Now that I know how to do it, I can take care of it pretty easily each spring and fall. This year, however, I decided it was time for my oldest son to learn it too, so I had him help me. I could do the work just fine without him, but I enjoyed teaching him and spending the time with him while we worked together. It made the job much better.

When it comes to “Serving the Lord” I have had the idea that I am working for God. I am serving Him, doing His work and accomplishing things for Him. This mindset means that I must be faithful, I must do a good job, I must live up to my responsibilities. If that concept doesn’t produce enough pressure and even stress on its own, then there is the problem of my weaknesses and mistakes. My humanity gets in my way and I don’t serve Him as well as I should. I don’t always do the job as well as it ought to be done.

This year God has been dealing with me on this and teaching me a better understanding of how He relates to me and what my relationship with Him means. He has shown me that the work of the ministry is truly His work and He is doing it. He has allowed me to help Him, not because He needs help or can’t do the job on His own, but because He likes to teach me and He likes to spend time with me. (He did, after all, die so that I could be with Him). He is fully capable in His wisdom and power, to build His kingdom, but He has chosen to bring me along and let me learn to do the work too. He wants to work alongside me and share the work in a way that bonds Him and me together.

This is such a different way of viewing my day to day life as a servant of God. Rather than thinking that it all rests on me, to my pride or my pain, I realize that I am called to faithfully work alongside the Master as He builds His kingdom and works in people’s lives. He takes joy in teaching me and allowing me to help Him. This makes me less lonely, less fearful of my inadequacy, and reminds me that God is not a distant taskmaster, but an ever-present Father.

I am thankful for my son, and for God allowing me to be a Dad so I can learn what it means to be His child.

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Far Beyond Sympathy

Most of us are comforted when someone connects with us at our point of suffering. They express concern, care, and in the best cases, they are able to connect with our suffering by accessing an experience they have had themselves. The greater the level of shared experience, the greater the comfort or connection. A person gets cancer and is going to receive treatment. Friends and family shave their heads in solidarity with the sufferer. A shared experience to demonstrate love and establish connection. The person then spends time in the cancer ward and becomes friends with others who are also fighting cancer. A much stronger shared experience and more encouragement and bond.

With this in mind, we then look at how God reveals Himself to us in the Bible. Here is God choosing to become human, live like a human, and die like a human. Rather than try to give us commands to make us god-like, He becomes human. In John 1 it tells us that God became flesh and lived in our midst. This Christmas we will celebrate the beginning of that process as God doesn’t just come down and try out being human for a few days, but instead He experiences every facet of human experience. The almighty Creator of the universe experiences life as an unborn baby, as a newborn, as a small child who isn’t potty trained, as a youth needing to obey his parents. He becomes an adult and experiences loss, hunger, sadness, and finally experiences fear, abandonment and betrayal, pain, rejection, and death by torture.

He didn’t have to. He chose to. To connect with us. Using the opening analogy, He didn’t shave His head to show sympathy, He gave Himself the worst terminal cancer He could, just so He could connect with us in our sorry state. He loved us that much. We often don’t think through that. We might understand that Jesus died for our sins, but we miss that part of the whole process was to share in our sufferings and take them on Himself. As a result, we don’t have someone representing us in heaven who can’t sympathize, but one who has gone through it all. The Bible says because of this, we can approach Him with confidence to receive grace and mercy in our time of need. (Hebrews 4:15-16)

He gets it. When you’ve blown it. When life has kicked you in the teeth. He gets it. You need more than sympathy, you need someone who has gone through it and will show you mercy and take care of you even if you don’t deserve it. Jesus suffering gives us the confidence that we can go get that from Him. Why so confident? Because He chose to go through all that to be your Savior; to be able to connect with you.

We call it Good News.

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Is Ninevah your Waterloo?

The story of Jonah is one of the more widely known stories of the Bible. Even those with little Bible knowledge have heard of “Jonah and the Whale.” What even many Christians haven’t paid enough attention to is what the story is about. We popularly say it is about the “reluctant” prophet. Sometimes we turn it into a cautionary tale about obeying God when He tells you to do something. Neither of these are the point of the story.

First, Jonah wasn’t reluctant, he was downright unwilling. He did not want to go to Ninevah because he didn’t want there to be any chance that they might be delivered from God’s judgment. He tells us this in Jonah 4:2 “…in order to forestall this I fled to Tarshish, for I knew that You are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness, and one who relents concerning calamity.”

Second, the tale is not presented as a lesson on obedience (although you could take that lesson from the story). Instead, the story is not about Jonah’s actions, but about both Jonah’s and God’s hearts. Chapter four finds the story coming to a climax with Ninevah repenting, God relenting, and Jonah fuming because he wanted to see Ninevah destroyed. Ninevah was a major city of Assyria, which two of Jonah’s fellow prophets had predicted would overthrow Israel. Jonah is a patriot and is more interested in saving his country than saving the people of Ninevah. The book ends with God expressing His own compassion on the city of pagan unbelievers.

God gave us the book of Jonah to ask us that same question. To challenge us to face our Ninevah. Too often many find more common cause with Jonah than we might care to admit. We are eager for the defeat of our enemies and more interested in saving the interests of ourselves and those around us than the enemies that threaten us. When you have a pagan, threatening enemy, compassion is rarely your go-to thought.

So there’s the challenge. Will Ninevah defeat you like it defeated Jonah. Will whoever you see as your enemy be the thing that reveals your lack of understanding of the compassion of God? Whether your Ninevah is someone from the other political party, (or all of “them”), someone from a different faith (or someone without any faith), or just a person in your life that seems set against you, do you see your Ninevah like God or like Jonah?

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Successful Failure

“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”

Thomas A. Edison

Yesterday’s blog post detailed one of the ways I tend to fail. Specifically how I tend to fail when I’m afraid I’m going to fail. It’s quite a cute little conundrum which I really hate about myself. Nevertheless, there it is, a truth about me. As I near a big milestone birthday and reflect back, I realize how much I have learned and am learning from my failures. I have to admit that it is true that I have learned far more from the failures, the mistakes, the hard times, and the weaknesses than I have learned from my successes and wins.

What has really been interesting to discover is how much others need my failures. This is harder for me than learning from my own failures. For others to learn from my failures means I need to share my failures with them, allow others to see my failures and not defend or excuse my failures. That is asking a lot!

The largest area where I have found this to be true is in raising my children. Especially as they have entered the teen years, I have found that it is vital that I be open, honest, and forthcoming about my weaknesses and failures. These messy areas of my life are hard to hide from my kids anyway since they live with me, and being honest and open about these untidy areas of my life allow me to speak into their lives and help them deal with things in their own lives in a more honest and hopefully preemptive way.

Church is the same way. As a pastor, rather than trying to portray a flawless, perfect man who has it all together, I need to be honest and transparent about my failures and weaknesses, because that can benefit many. This is true not just of pastors, but all of us. We need to be honest and open about our failures. We will learn far more from this very normal part of our earthly lives. It is very destructive to pride, but perhaps it takes a lot of pressure off of all of us. It is a key for us to not Keep Up Appearances.

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Weak Pastor, Strong Church

Time for another blow to the old pride! This will be a very personal post.

When I’m not sure what to do, I have a hard time planning or implementing a plan. If I know how to figure something out, great, I jump on it and can execute well, but one of my great weaknesses is that when I am uncertain and insecure about what to do, I can become discouraged to the point of paralysis. This is a tendency that I hate in myself and that brings embarrassment and shame to me. It was over a decade into our marriage before I finally was able to admit to Sarah that this is why I don’t get some things done. Not only don’t I know what to do, but I don’t know how to even start to proceed, and that fear causes me to just stop in my tracks. Admitting this here is only by the strength of God’s work in my life; to be this honest. (Side note, this is why God sent me an Administrative Assistant and an Administrative Pastor. Beth & Cody supply the missing piece in me to help me move past the blocks at church).

As fall came upon us, I needed to get the next supply of wood for this winter and next. Suddenly I was offered wood, but it was quite a ways away and was not cut up yet. So I needed help, a truck, someone to cut it up, plus figuring out when to get all these pieces together to make it work. I put out a plea on FB and got some responses but didn’t know what to do about it. (see? embarrassing). I did try to push through, but not knowing what to do and the feeling that I couldn’t make this work began to rise up and smother me. The weights began to pile up in my head. I didn’t want to disappoint the person who wanted to bless me with the gift of the wood, I felt it was wrong to try to martial resources from church to help because the church doesn’t exist to help me, I wasn’t confident I would have the time and ability to work up the wood since it was getting so late, and my daughter kept asking if we were going to be getting wood. Classic Ira trap.

Why am I sharing such a sad, weak picture of myself? Not because I want to, but because it matters to what happened next and demonstrates the goodness of God which comes as grace and mercy, not as a reward for our goodness.

This Sunday, I sat at church trying to grab some late lunch before Bible study after a busy morning and early afternoon, when my wife called and asked me to come home right away because, she said cryptically, “there are people in the yard.” So home I go, very confused and figuring probably some unexpected relative that I haven’t seen in a while dropped by unexpectedly. What I found was cars parked all along the edge of the road and my driveway and backyard filled with people from church working up and stacking wood. It was pouring rain, but they had a big tent set up to work under.

I. Was. Shocked. I didn’t have words to express what it means. I still don’t feel like I can adequately express what it meant for me. This blog post is an attempt.

It wasn’t merely that they took care of my wood for probably two years. It was that they stepped into an area where I was lost and failing and just FIXED it. The weight off my shoulders psychologically is hard to quantify. I didn’t deserve it. They shouldn’t have done it. And I could not possibly be more humbled, more grateful, more touched. How to put into words such powerful feelings of wanting to cry and laugh at the same time. I hate to need help and to need to be rescued and yet it feels so good to have been helped and rescued. It is embarrassing that I couldn’t do it on my own and oh so freeing to not have had to do it on my own.

I think that sums up all of us as we face coming to Christ or not. To come to Christ is to admit our utter failure and incompetence. It is demeaning, embarrassing, humiliating to have to face the fact that you can’t do it and you need to be rescued. On the other hand, there is no greater joy than to be loved undeservedly, delivered fully, and freed from trying to do something you know you can’t do.

I failed but was handed success by my church. I sinned and was handed righteousness by my God. In both cases I am deeply humbled, brought to tears and filled with joy. As I said to some of the workers that afternoon. “I thought it might be a relative, but it turned out to be family.” I am so thankful for everyone who had even a small part in this special gift of grace.

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1, 2, 3, 4, I Declare a Flame War!

In these days of hyper-polarization and strong partisanship, when we are all busy fighting our political enemies, we have new tools to help us speak. The digital age has handed each of us a megaphone (or several megaphones) with which to speak. We can post all number of memes, rants, reviews, reflections, and reactions to the news of the day and call out all the people who need (in our humble opinion) to be called out. In previous eras, we might sit and speak to a couple of friends at work, or at the store, but now we can broadcast our thoughts and reactions across the world electronically. We can make sure everyone knows how stupid and bad we think other people are. We can mock and decry all the people who are WRONG! We can call out the Dems, the Trumpists, own the Libs, mock little girls who give environmental speeches, and anyone else who has crossed our ideologies.

This presents a real danger for those who profess to follow Christ. We may be students of the Bible and have a clear sense of right and wrong from it, and this gives us a sense that we need to rail against others using this sense. The thing to stop and consider, especially when we remember that our social media is the public square, is what the Bible says to those of us who honor it about our speech, our language, and our approach. There is not enough space in one blog post to cover all the different passages in Scripture that instruct the follower of Christ in how they should speak, but let’s hit just a couple.

There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword, But the tongue of the wise brings healing.

(Proverbs 12:18)

Does our speaking cause wounds or bring healing? That is the very simple formulation of this verse. We tend to feel that the people we mock deserve it, but that is very much not the point. As a father of young children, I have never condoned one child being mean or verbally abusive to a sibling even when the sibling was also out of line. One sin doesn’t give permission for another sin.

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.

(Romans 12:14)

bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.

(Luke 6:28)

Facebook, Twitter, or other social media does not suddenly negate the clear command of Jesus. As fun as it is to let loose with scorn and derision against those we don’t like, don’t agree with, or feel mean us harm, the Bible comes out pretty strongly against it. Also consider that when we treat those we consider “enemies” like that, we are not acting any different than the world. As Jesus pointed out, even the wicked love their friends. Our opportunity is to be like Jesus, who did not rail against his accusers but instead, even when being murdered, asked that God forgive them.
One last note. Part of delighting in flaming against others is our strong sense of being in the right and proudly proclaiming that we are justified in our judgments; proudly so. Proverbs again instructs us,

He who guards his mouth and his tongue, Guards his soul from troubles.

“Proud,” “Haughty,” “Scoffer,” are his names, Who acts with insolent pride.

(Proverbs 21:23-24)

Let us stop and consider our next thrust of the sword. Our next desire to mock, belittle, insult and demean. The question is not whether they deserve it, or whether you are more right, smarter, or more righteous. The question is, are you blessing, guarding your tongue, and bringing healing rather than adding flames to a world on fire.

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A Failing Church

There are people who believe that their spiritual gift is “Church Critic.” They have a fun ministry of pointing out to others all the areas that we need to “fix.” Pastors oftentimes really struggle with people with this particular gifting, not only because its generally pretty discouraging, but also because most pastors desperately want to fix each of these things and when a Critic is expressing their gift, the pastor often adds pressure to himself.

A few years ago I was approached by someone with the gift who opened the discussion with, “do you know about the problem with this church?” My response was, “Yes, and I’ll bet my list is longer than yours. It’s actually worse than you think!” The Critic didn’t quite know what to say. I had out-gifted them! Rather than defend and try to explain the fact that we were failing in some area, or feel defeated, I was just honest. Our church is very far from perfect and has many areas that need work.

At the heart of the issue is the feeling by some that our goal is to achieve as much perfection as possible. We should seek to do things well, and we should continually work on areas where we are weak, but the goal of the church is to proclaim the grace and mercy of God and His love expressed through the death and resurrection of Jesus on the cross. As fallen human beings we continually demonstrate that we “fall short of the glory of God.” The fix is not to try to be perfect, but to again rest in and proclaim the grace and mercy of God.

When someone approaches me and tells me they are unhappy with an aspect of our church, I can easily find common cause with them. There are always areas that I am unhappy with as well. I ask them if they thought that the goal was to make us happy? My happiness is not a goal, nor do I make it a goal to try to please each person who attends. Instead, my goal is to proclaim, share, and show the love, mercy, and grace of Jesus, and sometimes my own and the churches own failures help communicate that.

So if you come to our church, you will observe a failing church with failing people. We have this treasure in clay pots. If we are who we’ve been called to be, our weakness and failings will provide a showcase of the power of God who saves sinners and is kind to evil and ungrateful people.

And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.

(2 Corinthians 12:9)
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Kanye or Notye

Note: This post does not review the newly released album “Jesus is King” by Kanye West.

Apparently Kanye’s new album is a big deal. I have never been a fan, mostly because I don’t follow most popular music, being partial to indie Christian, folk, classical, and show tunes. As a result, I might not even have known that a new album was coming out were it not for the extra exposure I got from Christian friends on social media and the news due to Kanye’s purported conversion, and release of a praise & worship album.

Color me cautious. I am certainly hopeful that Mr. West has truly found Jesus in a real, not a publicity-seeking, way and that he is connecting to mature believers who can disciple him and help him truly grow in Christ. If this album becomes a trail marker on a road of new life and fruit of the Spirit, then I’ll be delighted. At the moment, what we have is a lot of reasons to be cautious and reticent. Kanye has had a pretty unstable history of wide swings of positions and mood, signs of mental health struggles, and sinful indulgence. This past does not mean that his current album isn’t real, or heart-felt, or the start of something new, but as Christians, we are often so eager for a big turn-around story that we latch on and elevate people before we know what the story truly is.

Our society is a celebrity-based society. We have a reality-show star for president, an Instagram influencer culture, and a strong tendency to admire and follow those who have succeeded in the media/follower arena. This is true even within the Christian culture as we tend to most follow, admire, listen to teachers/preachers who have big churches or good media platforms. This makes Kanye very irresistible for many Christians. A worldly rogue, colorful anti-hero who is so popular he can both go by only one name and can even change that name (from Kanye to Yeezus, Yeezy, or Ye). Now he’s found Jesus and dedicated an album to him! Perfect!

I’ll be happy to wait and see. At some point I will probably find out what the album is about, and over time we’ll see if this is real, not just another zig-zag on the road of earthly fame and fortune. I urge my brothers and sisters in the meantime to keep their powder dry, pray for this man, his health, his spiritual journey, and those around him including his family. Our own testimony is strengthened when we are careful and wise instead of jumping on every bandwagon that rolls by, no matter how tempting.

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Socialized Church

You don’t the term “Church Social” much anymore. It is a term of our past. Now we have fellowship times or, in the case of Bean’s Corner, Koinonia which is just another word for fellowship. No matter what form getting together takes or what name we give it, coming together as a group is a social activity and like any gathering of people, there can be pressure to conform.

Social pressure to conform has perhaps gotten slightly magnified in our current culture. As our political climate has become more divided and heated, we expect people to align within our group. We tend to want to hang out with our “own kind” more and we seek out people with whom we feel most comfortable. This is human nature, but there is a dark side to it. We tend to call it peer pressure, and it can affect any group, from kids through all adult stages of life.

The most dangerous part of this kind of socialization is when it takes the place of the transformation that is supposed to characterize a person who has put their faith in Jesus. Too often our churches have actually created and wielded socialization as a tool to affect change in people’s lives. It starts with the youth group as we have rules of speech, dress, and conduct that must be observed in order to be considered a “good” kid and a member of good standing in the youth program. If you don’t conform, you will be excluded from your social group.

Too often churches have done the same with the adults. You are expected to look a certain way, sound a certain way, act a certain way, or you will not “fit in” and will be under pressure to conform. This can seem like a good and appropriate thing to keep people in line if it didn’t fly in the face of what the Bible says about the change that should take place. We are not to conform (an act of our own volition) to this world, but instead, be transformed (an act by an outside force) by the renewing of our minds. In other words, we are to be changed by what we learn, not change ourselves based on social pressure. This is a crucial difference. Jesus didn’t come to change our behavior, He came to change our hearts through His work, and a changed heart will result in changed behavior.

The goal is the heart, with the behavior being a result, not the primary goal. This is why the Bible refers to our outward behavior sometimes as fruit. Remembering that the behavior is a result of a heart issue, we should focus less on trying to change people’s behavior or enforcing behavioral conformity, but instead use the behavior as a window into the heart and focus on bringing hearts to Jesus. If we focus first and foremost on getting outward conformity, we will often end up creating people with a form of godliness but no power, and Pharisees that follow the rules well but are dead inside. We will also create a culture of concealment rather than a culture of confession.

Let us, especially if we are leaders in our churches, move away from trying to enforce outward conformity, but instead encourage people to meet, accept, and submit to Christ who will transform us.

But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.

(Philippians 3:20-21)
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